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How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships
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Episode 9
Season 9
The Case for Good Apologies with Susan McCarthy
Apologies and Relationships: How to Say Sorry and Mean It
In this episode of How to Split a Toaster, Seth and Pete dive into the art of apologizing effectively with special guest Susan McCarthy, co-author of Sorry, Sorry, Sorry: The Case for Good Apologies. Together, they explore the anatomy of a sincere apology, discuss common pitfalls, and share insights on how mastering the apology can improve your relationships, especially during a divorce – and we’re not just talking about with your spouse or ex but your kids as well!
Susan, a renowned author who has written about animal behavior and humor, brings her expertise on crafting effective apologies to the conversation. Seth and Pete engage her in a thought-provoking discussion on why people struggle with apologizing, the importance of teaching children how to apologize correctly, and how a well-executed apology can make a significant difference in the divorce process.
Questions we answer in this episode:
- What are the key components of a sincere apology?
- How can a genuine apology impact divorce proceedings?
- Why is it crucial to teach children the art of apologizing?
Key Takeaways:
- A proper apology consists of six essential steps, including expressing remorse, acknowledging the specific wrongdoing, and demonstrating an understanding of the impact.
- Apologies can be powerful tools in mediation and can help couples reach agreements during a divorce.
- Mastering the art of apologizing can lead to healthier relationships and emotional well-being.
This episode offers valuable insights for anyone looking to improve their communication skills and strengthen their relationships. Whether you're going through a divorce or simply want to learn how to apologize effectively, Seth, Pete, and Susan provide practical advice and real-life examples to help you navigate the complexities of saying "I'm sorry" and meaning it.
Links & Notes
- SorryWatch.com
- Get Susan’s and Marjorie’s Book in hardback or paperback
- Schedule a consult with Seth
- Got a question you want to ask on the show? Click here!
Chapters
- Welcome to How to Split a Toaster
- Meet Susan McCarthy
- Analyzing Apologies
- The 'Saving Your Pride' Problem
- Apologies in the Divorce Process
- Divorce and Apology Backstory
- Six Parts of a Good Apology
- Between Spouses
- In Mediation
- Not Making It Worse
- Getting Past Grudges
- Dissecting Apologies
- The Media Matters
- Positive Example
- Receiving an Apology
- Sorry Not Sorry
- Changes to Apologies in Modern Culture
- Apologies to Your Kids
- Over-Apologizing?
- Apologies with Gifts?
- Practicing
- Susan’s Book
- Wrap Up