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Flying Free
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Episode 194
Season 1
What Role Does Fear Play in Our Religion and Our Relationships? [194]
“You don’t know God,” the elder leaned forward and said to me. He knew I was preparing to divorce my emotionally abusive husband.
My body began to tremble. My voice shook.
I realized later that he was right. His god was vindictive and cruel, like a mythological Zeus.
The God I know — deeply, intimately, since I was a child — is gentle and kind and leads me away from fear and control.
That was the first church meeting I ever walked out of. And the last one I ever had with those elders.
It’s also when I realized that I could fly free. So can you.
In this episode with licensed marriage and family therapist Naomi Norton, we discuss:
- 11 dominant fears the Christian community uses to influence (CONTROL) women
- Why being connected to the physical (your body, emotions) is so important
- How to prioritize, process, and honor fear
- What the church usually says about fear (and why their perspective is SO DANGEROUS)
- How being aware of fear (the types, the ways they surface) can HELP US PROTECT ourselves
- Why moving toward fear is often NOT a good or godly response
- The reason you love God but you’re afraid of him (and how to get rid of that fear)
- How to respond to people (often church people) who USE FEAR TO CONTROL US
- Naomi’s Facebook page is like a 5-course banquet for emotional and spiritual abuse survivors. You’ll gobble it up!
- If you live in or near Kansas City and you’re looking for a therapist, check out Naomi’s website.
- If you are a Christian woman who thinks you may be in an emotionally destructive marriage, learn more at https://flyingfreenow.com
- I'll send you (free!) the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage, which has an assessment to help you figure out if your relationship is abusive or not. All you have to do is hop on my mailing list at https://flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download
- You can also find out about our online education and support program for women of faith at https://joinflyingfree.com
- And finally, if you are a divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, lose weight, have amazing relationships, get things done, build a business or career, and even find a good man (if you want one) - check out Flying Higher at https://joinflyinghigher.com
Naomi Norton is a licensed marriage and family therapist. She’s been in private practice for eight years. She has a passion for working with marginalized communities and people who’ve suffered religious trauma. Naomi is in the final stages of completing her Ph.D. in family therapy at North Central University. Her dissertation research focuses on the evangelical Christian community’s perspective on mental health.