If you're reactive and want to stop, or if you've been told "count to 10 before responding" and don't know how to even begin doing that, this episode can help! I introduce my top 3 tools of recovery and then discuss, in detail, how I overcame the monumental task of learning to pause before responding. This one tool help me to get rid of my sense of urgency, eased my lifelong tension, and got me to peace and serenity.