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It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People
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Episode 18
Season 2
Telling a High Conflict Spouse That You Want a Divorce
One of the hardest decisions when divorcing a high-conflict spouse is how and when to tell that person that you want a divorce. How will the person react? Will I be in danger? Will my life become a worse hell?
In this episode, Megan and Bill discuss this extremely relevant and important topic, starting with a question from a listener. They will discuss:
- What should you do if your partner doesn’t know yet that you want a divorce?
- How should you tell that person?
- How should you prepare?
- What should you say? Where should you say it?
- Should you have someone with me?
- Is it okay to stay at home after delivering the news?
- What to be aware of going forward.
- Should the kids be told in advance? Or when do I tell them?
- Should the kid’s school be notified?
Links & Other Notes
- BOOKS
- AUDIO SERIES
- ON DEMAND COURSES & COACHING
Our website: https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/
All of our books can be found in our online store or anywhere books are sold, including as e-books.
You can also find these show notes at our site as well.
Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing patterns of behavior.
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Chapters
- Welcome to It's All Your Fault
- Telling an HCP You Want a Divorce
- Start With Preparing
- So Many Things to Think About
- What You'll Say and Where
- Should I Have Someone With Me?
- Should I Go Home Afterward?
- Going Forward
- When to Tell the Children
- Telling the School
- Wrapping Up
- Reminders & Coming Next Week: Family Law in Israel with Guest Michal Fein