{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"REALIFE Conversations from the Porch","title":"EP. 379 What Your Sock Drawer Is Trying to Tell You","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":780,"description":"Hey friend, welcome back to Real Life Conversations from the Porch! This week’s episode came straight from a real moment in my own life — and honestly, I think it might hit a little close to home for you too.\nI’m coming to you fresh off a beautiful camping weekend with Farmer Dale, and I wanted to share something I’ve been sitting with: the idea that the little things are never really just about the little things.\nIt started with my sock drawer.Yep — you heard that right. My sock drawer had quietly become a mess over the last six to eight months. Socks separated from their pairs, things tossed about, worn-out ones taking up space long past their time. And every time I opened that drawer, something inside me cringed. Maybe you know that feeling. Maybe it’s a drawer in your bathroom, your kitchen, your garage.\nHere’s what I’ve come to understand: that cringe isn’t you being dramatic. Research tells us that our brains are constantly scanning our environment and registering disorder — even when we’re not consciously aware of it. That low-grade irritation you feel when the mail piles up, the laundry sits in the basket too long, or the friend you’ve been meaning to call keeps getting pushed to the back burner? Those are signals. And they’re trying to get your attention.\nWhen the manageable things start slipping, it’s almost always a sign that something bigger is going on underneath.\nSo what do we do with that? We pause. We bring it to the surface. We notice it without shame — because grace is always the way.\nIn this episode, I also share how the 90-Day Reset built into the Real Life Process was made for exactly these moments — and why we need resets in small ways (weekly), medium ways (quarterly), and big ways (annually) to keep our lives from owning us instead of the other way around.\nAnd there’s an exciting announcement! This fall, I’m opening up the farm — Farmer Dale’s family farm right here in Southern Illinois — for a very small, very intentional Real Life Living...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/OVBSsKfZpBrbPhPEq4ZcGRvv5b0hdwV76ndOwfbQqLk/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS81MWUx/NGExOTVlZDY1Zjg5/NDRhMWExYmY2NmE4/NGFmMi5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}