{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Think Fast Talk Smart: Communication Techniques","title":"339. The Write Stuff: Finding the Words for Life’s Hardest Conversations","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1385,"description":"“Being present is really at the center of listening. Nothing really happens unless we're present.”\nSome of the most important things we need to say are often the hardest to put into words. Whether it's expressing gratitude, offering an apology, or saying goodbye, slowing down and taking the time to write can help us communicate with greater thoughtfulness and meaning. In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Matt Abrahams speaks with Frish Brandt, professional letter midwife and author of Unfinished Business: Writing the Five Essential Letters of Your Life. Brandt shares why letter writing can be as valuable for the writer as the recipient, how to move past the fear of a blank page, and why thoughtful communication requires more than finding the right words.\nTakeaways:\nSlowing down makes communication more meaningful. Thoughtful writing helps us process emotions, find the right words, and express ourselves with greater intention.\nBetter listening starts with being present. Setting aside our own thoughts and judgments creates space for empathy, understanding, and stronger connections.\nActivity:\nWrite the unwritten letter. Write the first few sentences of a letter you've been putting off, whether it's a thank you, an apology, or something left unsaid. Focus on expressing what you genuinely feel rather than finding the perfect words.\nPrintable Expanded Takeaways & Activities\n\nEpisode Reference Links:\nFrish Brandt\nFrish’s Book: Unfinished Business\nEp.114 Communication Means Paying Attention: The Four Pillars of Active Listening \nConnect:\nPremium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart Premium\nEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.io\nEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart Website\nNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.io\nThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTube\nMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn\n\n Chapters:","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/q5mdbH19uvLyzjcjXlHsPP-L-mMRkTxgiwJ9rXbXuEU/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9kMTFm/MzE2MzEwOTVhNTYy/YjVjYzBlYWJmZWJm/ZjM5ZS5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}