{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Do You Feel That? | A Couples Intimacy & Sex Podcast","title":"Dirty Talk 101 — Why It Works, What to Say, and How to Start Without Feeling Ridiculous","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3554,"description":"Most couples want to try dirty talk. Most couples never do because they don't know where to start and they're terrified of feeling ridiculous.\n\nIn Episode 43, Scott and Brittney fix that. This is Dirty Talk 101: the psychology of why it works, the four styles and what each one sounds like, a practical step-by-step progression from complete beginner to genuinely confident, and the honest conversation about what not to do.\n\nThe research is clear: couples who communicate verbally during sex report significantly higher satisfaction, more intense orgasms, and deeper emotional connection. And women despite the cultural assumption are more likely to fantasize about dirty talk than men. The information gap around this topic is enormous. Today's episode closes it.\n\nScott and Brittney get personal about their own journey with verbal intimacy including the awkward beginning and give listeners everything they need to start tonight.\nIn this episode:\nThe 2021 Journal of Sexual Medicine study — what it found about verbal communication and orgasm intensity\nThe four styles: appreciative, directive, narrative, and fantasy — what each sounds like and who it's for\nA step-by-step progression from beginner to confident\nWhat not to do including why porn dialogue is the wrong reference point\nScott & Brittney's honest personal takes on their own journey with verbal intimacy\nHow to recover gracefully when something lands awkwardly\nLoved this conversation? We turned it into an ebook — Dirty Talk: Finding Your Voice in the Bedroom — with 35+ phrases and the \"why it works\" behind each. It's on our Patreon.\nRemember — intimacy is not automatic... it's guided.\n\nCouples Intimacy Resources\n\nLooking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship?\nDownload Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection.\nFor personalized support, Scott offers Sex &...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/Nobw__SsL1MHaP84O1DHUYOUl24hhbPPKmJ36fCapGw/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS84MGQ4/ZmYxZjRjMDkxMDhk/NTliNzU5OTZhOGMz/ZDhmZC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}