{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Church is Messy","title":"Church Is Messy: Welcome Home - Parenting","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":2162,"description":"Today, Pastor Caleb Smith joins Svea in the studio as they close out our discussions on family by looking at parenting and parental influence.\n\nTopics Discussed in this Episode\n00:00 Intro\n01:36 An exceptional message that spoke to people of many different categories of people who have parental influence whether or not children are a part of home life.\n03:23 The parental models we have in the bulk of Scripture are not examples of great parenting - usually just the opposite.\n06:13 The parental influence and example of Jesus - largely exhibited in his relationship with the disciples.\n08:14 Dual roles of actively shaping and modeling with our lives.\n13:46 Speaking to people who are grieved by what may have been \"caught\" vs what was \"taught.\"\n16:50 How are you engaging in your discipleship with Jesus? The fruit of the Spirit is a natural byproduct of intentional discipleship.\n19:20 Each child is different, so there is no one-size-fits-all approach to parenting.\n22:45 Disconnecting the idea that discipline means punishment or retribution. Discipline is about training and thriving.\n27:38 How do we account for great parents who do not follow Jesus?\n33:52 When we don't know what to do or how to proceed, we can go back to the foundation of what it means to be a child of God ourselves and try to bring that, as best we can, into our own child's life.","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/eGW0GjLFQWz3qpPjio-ji_5x5MOSNJlW79nf4VSHKIM/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9zaG93/LzI4Mzk3LzE2ODMw/MzYzMDItYXJ0d29y/ay5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}