{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Do You Feel That? | A Couples Intimacy & Sex Podcast","title":"What Turns You On — And Why Your Partner Has No Idea","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":4753,"description":"Most couples have been together for years and their partner still doesn't know exactly what turns them on. Not because they don't care. Because nobody ever gave either of them the language for it.\nIn Episode 45, Scott and Brittney introduce the Sexual Self-Portrait — a User Manual for how you're actually wired. They each walk through their own completed portrait live, across nine essential sections: Core Desire, Dimension of Sex, Erotic Blueprint, Emotional Wiring, Arousal Arc, favorite position, ideal music and atmosphere, what lands and what doesn't, and how to meet them well.\nScott shares his complete portrait — what he needs, how he arrives, what reliably works and what pulls him out, and what his Enneagram 4 with a 3 wing reveals about how his personality shapes his intimacy. Brittney shares hers — including Scott's working read of her from the outside, and what she'd correct or add in her own words.\nThey also share why building these documents has been one of the most genuinely useful things they've done for their intimate life and give listeners everything they need to build their own, including a free downloadable template.\nThis is the most personal episode of the series. Because the more clearly you know yourself, the more fully you can be met.\nIn this episode:\nWhy most partners have no idea what actually turns their person on and why that's nobody's fault\nThe nine sections of the Sexual Self-Portrait and what each one reveals\nScott and Brittney's complete portraits — Core Desires, Dimensions, Enneagram scores, Arousal Arcs, and more\nWhy this has been a game changer for Scott and Brittney personally\nThe two versions worth building — your own and a working read of your partner\nHow to share it without it feeling like a performance review or a complaint\nNine prompts to start building yours tonight\nDownload the Sexual Self-Portrait Template\n\nFrameworks Referenced in This Episode:\nCore Desires — Somatica Institute\nThe Three Dimensions of Sex — Coelle\nErotic...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/Nobw__SsL1MHaP84O1DHUYOUl24hhbPPKmJ36fCapGw/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS84MGQ4/ZmYxZjRjMDkxMDhk/NTliNzU5OTZhOGMz/ZDhmZC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}