{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Powerhouse Lawyers","title":"The Conversation High-Achievers Are Afraid to Have (About Sex, Intimacy & Power)","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":2685,"description":"In this episode of the Powerhouse Lawyers podcast, host Erin Gerner interviews Amy Terwilleger, a certified sex and relationship coach. They discuss Amy's unique journey from law to coaching, the common struggles faced by high achievers regarding intimacy, and the importance of pleasure in both personal and professional life. Amy shares insights on how to enhance intimacy, the coaching process, and the significance of addressing grief and loss during transitions. The conversation emphasizes the need for open discussions about sexuality and the link between pleasure and success.Key Topics CoveredAmy's journey from engineer to Women's Studies to BigLaw partner to sex coachLiving the \"perfect life on paper\" but feeling empty insideThe midlife reawakening (not crisis) that so many women experienceWhat high-achieving women aren't talking about: libido decline and intimacy strugglesWhy 80% of women don't orgasm from penetration alone (and why that's NORMAL)The difference between sex coaching and therapyHow sex education failed us (all negative, zero pleasure)Why we're taught to be prim and proper but expected to be sex goddessesThe science behind pleasure: oxytocin, dopamine, serotonin, endorphinsHow pleasure literally heals your body (backed by science)Why you should schedule sex (and why spontaneity is overrated)Responsive desire vs. spontaneous desireThe 20-second hug that releases oxytocinSolo play as self-discovery (yes, we're talking about masturbation)Holding space for grief even when you're moving forwardThe loss of identity when you leave the lawPermission slips for pleasure, joy, and prioritizing yourselfWork with Amy Terwilleger: Amy provides sex and relationship coaching for driven professionals, power couples, and individuals. Amy offers a judgment-free space where you can talk openly about sex, intimacy, and pleasure without shame. Her sessions are goal-oriented, forward-looking, and results-driven—with homework assignments to help you take action...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/_GScSjv2YWWc8k0t9F0DEBXrHFUOTcZy3Cqt81QrOr0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8yMDM3/MWQ1MTE1NWM4NWNm/OTE5Yjk5ZTY0ZDkx/ODA2Ni5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}