{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Handsome Hour","title":"Episode 2 - Compete Where You Can Win","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/0d2a9ae2\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":4909,"description":"This week on The Handsome Hour, Wes, Cody, and Stony give dating advice with strong opinions, questionable metaphors, and a sincere desire to help you stop sabotaging yourself.The fellas break down \"radio silence\" before a first date, why modern dating feel scriptless, why high-bandwidth communication beats endless texting, and the simple confirmation move that keeps you from getting ghosted.When a guy asks a woman her weight and calls her \"hefty,\" where's the line between honesty, tact, and being an idiot? Plus: why first impressions can be wildly misleading, the case for giving things a little more runway, and Stony's coin-flip experiment.Finally, the conversation widens out to the big stuff: money, housing, status, height, and why dating feels harder than it used to. The guys argue for playing Moneyball(s) with your love life  — stop competing where you can't win, lean in to your unique \"market alpha,\" and go where real connection actually happens.Prepare to get handsome.","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/QmmW8Li3th_UedzbxY1jVGiEbIxvnsw__3uzErTkInM/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8xODgw/ODcyZDQ0OWI4ZWNl/YmZhYWEyZTA5NWFi/YjdkNy5QTkc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}