{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Startup Dad","title":"Multicultural Families and Avoiding Over-Optimization of Parenting | Martin Pannier (Dad of 1, Founder/CEO Primo)","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3689,"description":"Martin Pannier is a French entrepreneur who started the company Primo to help small and medium-sized businesses get their IT work right for new employees. He’s worked as a product leader at iziwork, Gusto and several others. In addition to being a founder he’s also a husband and the father of one young daughter. In our conversation today we discussed:* Raising a daughter in a multicultural family* How to avoid the temptation to view parenting as an accomplishment* Why not to focus on over-optimization of parenting* Maintaining relationships outside of the family when it’s hectic* The balance of two working parents when one is a founder* His most surprising aspects of becoming a Dad* A few things he learned very quickly after his daughter was born* Having a newborn and running a company—Where to find Martin Pannier* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/martinpannier/* Primo: https://www.getprimo.com/Where to find Adam Fishman* FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/—In this episode, we cover:[1:37] Welcome[1:51] Background[5:25] Martin’s Childhood[8:25] Martin’s Family[11:58] Did he have to convince his wife to move to France?[15:09] Their decision to start a family[17:23] What it’s like having a newborn & running a company?[21:53] Multicultural parenting styles[25:56] Terrible parenting advice[28:04] Earliest memory of becoming a father[30:07] Parenting as an accomplishment[34:22] What surprised you the most about becoming a dad?[35:39] Diaper changing competition[36:43] What did you learn after having your daughter?[39:34] How he has prioritized maintaining relationships outside the house[41:04] Favorite book to read to Juno?[42:02] Family language in a multilingual household[43:57] How has having child/starting company impacted your life?[45:58] What he hopes for his daughter’s relationship to technology[50:03] What’d he give up to become a...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/F_yCls74GdKLzmfCUXKoHwqOZKN_mFb5zL7jtAWlzzU/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8wYjMx/Yzg1NmIzMjBiZmE4/ZGFiM2ZjMjQ2Yjcy/OTY2OS5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}