{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Secure Husband","title":"I Married the First Woman Who Gave Me Attention","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/0fb1b3cb\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":468,"description":"You didn’t choose her because you were sure.\nYou chose her because she saw you.\nAnd in that moment, it felt like everything you ever wanted.\nThis episode of The Secure Husband Podcast speaks to the man who just realized:\n“I married the first woman who gave me attention.”\nYou are not alone.\nYou are not broken.\nYou were starved for love — and you settled for a crumb.\nBut now? You’re waking up. And that changes everything.\nWhat you’ll learn in this episode:\n✅ Why emotional hunger leads to fast commitment\n✅ How attention feels like love when you’ve been ignored\n✅ What your younger self was really searching for\n✅ How to stop feeling shame about your past choices\n✅ Why healing helps you stop settling\n✅ What a healthy relationship looks like when you’re secure\nThis episode is for you if:\n✔️ You feel like you settled too early\n✔️ You feel unseen in your marriage\n✔️ You want more connection, respect, and emotional safety\n✔️ You’re ready to stop blaming and start leading with peace\nIn this episode, we walk through:\nWhat “I married the first woman who gave me attention” really means\nHow you confused being seen with being loved\nWhy this leads to pain once the excitement fades\nHow to speak to the boy inside you who just wanted to feel wanted\nWhy you need to lead from healing — not blame\nHow to build connection from wholeness, not need\nYou didn’t fail.\nYou made a choice from pain — and now you’re growing from truth.\nWhether you stay, grow together, or move on…\nYou no longer settle.\nYou no longer beg.\nYou no longer betray yourself just to stay safe.\nIf you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.\n#deadbedroom #marriage \n#sexlessmarriage\n#MarriageHelp\n#SaveYourMarriage\n#SecureHusband\n#MarriageAdvice\n#RelationshipHealing\n#SelfWorth\n#InnerChildHealing\n#MensMentalHealth\n#SelfLoveJourney\n#EmotionalHealing\n#OvercomeRejection\n#HealthyMasculinity...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/YJmHpXqr3wfrhL5fsdmtlNEm6ml1FboHb1lRAj0byEY/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8xM2Vj/NGY4MTMxZDhhNmE5/ZGI4YzVmMjNmZjRh/YWU4MC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}