{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Beyond the Gray","title":"You Don't Need a Rock Bottom - You Need Your Own Enough | Ep. 22","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1356,"description":"Jumping into a pool in my bra and underwear at a 4th of July party wasn't enough. Passing out on my husband's shoulder five minutes into a Tony Bennett and Lady Gaga concert we'd waited eight months for wasn't enough. Saying a cuss word in front of 700 people with their heads bowed in prayer at my husband's work event wasn't enough. But telling my then 23-year-old son to go blank himself while blacked out? That was enough. And I still remember his face the next morning when he told me what I'd said.\nIn Episode 22 of Beyond the Gray, Kari Schwear gets raw about the moments that weren't enough, the one that finally was, and why the difference had everything to do with identity. This episode isn't just about alcohol. It's about why intelligent, successful people stay stuck long after they know something needs to change, and how to choose your own \"enough\" before life chooses it for you.\nKari also shares three client stories of \"enough\" moments: the business trip that went too far, the wife who finally walked out, and the doctor who delivered news that couldn't be ignored. Every person's enough is different. The question is whether you'll choose yours or wait for it to choose you.\nIn this episode you'll hear:\n• The three embarrassing stories that still weren't enough for Kari to change\n• The one moment that was, and why it hit differently than all the others\n• Why none of those earlier moments changed her identity, but the night with her son did\n• The neuroscience behind why our brains prefer unhealthy familiar over healthy unfamiliar\n• Why you keep comparing yourself to people who are worse off instead of people who are healthy\n• Three real client stories of \"enough\" moments: the business trip, the packed bag, the doctor's warning\n• Why most people aren't waiting for rock bottom, they're waiting for certainty\n• The leadership parallel: why leaders pivot fast in business but wait years in their personal lives\n• How the seed of change works, and why it took Kari two...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/o3QgvEYD_EzW-1N7UZfNYTN4qL2oafyqZIw1SF69BYo/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9kYjNl/NjgxZTdjNDY2YjIw/NjdlNjBlYTUyMjgw/OTZjMy5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}