{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People","title":"Grief Over the Death of a High Conflict Loved One","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1370,"description":"In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan provide guidance for coping with the complicated emotions that can arise when a high conflict person passes away. They cover the confusing mix of grief and relief family members often feel, how to handle being blamed after the loss, and the destabilization that can occur when a high conflict adult child loses a parent.\n\nQuestions we answer in this episode:\nHow do you handle the blend of grief and relief after the death of a high conflict loved one?\nWhat if you were the target of blame by the deceased?\nWhy do high conflict people often lash out more after losing a stabilizing parent?\nHow can probate turn siblings against each other?\n\nKey Takeaways:\nIt's normal to feel both grief and relief when a high conflict person dies. Don't judge yourself.\nBeing the target of blame can be depressing. Counseling helps with the loss and disorientation.\nLoss of a stabilizing parent can really destabilize a high conflict adult child's other relationships.\nHigh conflict people view things in black and white terms. Try to stay above the \"teams\" forming during probate.\nLosing a family member is always difficult, but even more complicated when high conflict is involved. Bill and Megan provide compassionate insight into managing these challenging situations and emotions. They remind us that empathy, perspective and communication are key.\n\nLinks & Other Notes\nCONSULTATION & COACHINGLive Lab (1:1 coaching to learn verbal and written communication skills in high conflict situations)\nConsultations (1:1 educational consultation to discuss high conflict situations and cases with our high conflict experts)\nBOOKS5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life\nIt’s All Your Fault!\nARTICLESWhy Healing is Hard for High Conflict People\nOur website: https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/\nSubmit a Question for Bill and Megan\nAll of our books can be found in our online store or anywhere books are sold, including as e-books.\nYou can also find these show...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/mMyRt1KE9ifhcy6s5OCZZIHSa3HFTTLMyzXMa0kp8z4/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9zaG93/LzMzMTkxLzE2NjA0/MTU5MjAtYXJ0d29y/ay5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}