{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Stories Of Hope With Tzipora Grodko ","title":"The Modern Dating Myth That’s Keeping People Single: Hila and Nadav Fluss","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/1e56920e\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3139,"description":"Hila and Nadav Fluss met through Shagririm Balev, a friends-set-up-friends dating initiative that has quietly produced hundreds of engagements in just a few years, and their story shows exactly why the model works. Hila grew up between Israel and South Korea chasing music, theater, and a life she wasn't ready to trade in for marriage, while Nadav spent nearly eight years dating without finding anything serious, always chasing the \"Disney moment\" instead of the right person. Raised across Israel, the Philippines, Holland, South Africa, and the U.S. as the son of a diplomat, Nadav eventually realized that the spark he kept waiting for wasn't the point, and that real relationships are built through communication and effort rather than instant magic.\nTogether, Hila and Nadav open up about the self-work that got them there: Nadav's realization that he needed to stop leaving the moment things got emotionally difficult, and Hila's decision to evaluate partners rationally before letting herself get swept up in excitement. They talk candidly about the fear of commitment so many daters carry, the value of having a trusted ambassador in your corner instead of facing an overwhelming sea of options alone, and what it actually took to go from \"he seems like a good guy\" to building a life together with a baby now on the way. Anyone who feels stuck in a pattern of dating without direction, or who wonders whether waiting for a feeling is holding them back from a real relationship, will find a lot to sit with in this conversation.\nThis week's episode is brought to you in part by:\n► PZ Deals\nDownload The PZ Deals app and never pay full price again.\nhttps://app.pz.deals/install/soh\n_________________\n► Colel Chabad Pushka App\nThe easiest way to give Tzedaka.\nhttps://pushkapp.cc/soh\n_________________\n► Shagririm Balev\nA friends-set-up-friends dating initiative already responsible for hundreds of engagements, matching singles through trusted ambassadors instead of overwhelming apps....","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/Gq64TzXSJt8dLepa7sDMjNO9jwB_8ROE29QF-nP27_4/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8zODI3/OWMzODdjZTRhNGEx/OGY2ZDQxNDUwMzMz/ODMyMC5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}