{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Why Intervention Podcast","title":"How To Master Healthy Boundaries Vs. Consequences & Ultimatums - Episode 66","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3847,"description":"Substance and alcohol use can ruin not only your addicted loved one's lives.. but also yours.\nIf you've reached the end of your rope and you can't take it anymore, should you deliver an ultimatum? Can ultimatums really solve the problem?\nFor today's episode, Chris and Danny discuss the differences between ultimatums, consequences, and healthy boundaries.\nThey describe how ineffective ultimatums are because the person giving the ultimatum is not always committed to following through on it. If a parent tells a child that they will be kicked out if they continue to use substances or drink, but if the parent is not actually willing to follow through, then the child will learn that they can continue their addiction without consequence.\nChris and Danny also argue that ultimatums and consequences are usually ineffective because they are reactionary and not well thought out. Setting healthy boundaries is a better choice because it requires more insight and planning.\n Links and Resources from this Episode\n https://whyintervention.com/\nhttps://twitter.com/whyintervention\nhttps://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs Highlights\nThe differences between ultimatums, consequences, and healthy boundaries\nAre ultimatums effective?\nThe dangers of ultimatums for people in recovery\nDifferent types of ultimatums\nEffectiveness of ultimatums in intervention\nShould consequences be given to a loved one?\nDangers of drinking and driving\nThe consequences of enabling an addicted loved one\nThree stages of dealing with addiction in a family\nWhy should you let your child experience natural consequences?\nSetting healthy boundaries with your loved ones\nChanging negative beliefs by setting healthy boundaries\nPower of reframing your beliefs\nSetting standards during the recovery process\n Call to Action Schedule a Call Free Resources\nReview, Subscribe and Share If you like what you hear please leave a review by clicking here\nMake sure you're subscribed to the podcast so you get the latest...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/yhfLXfzwx_u237YNOaEIAYiDf_qEDMaKPO4VaOmEo-4/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8zZDE2/YTI3YjI0ZTI0NmY2/NWRhODg2MmU1Zjhj/ZGQwNC5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}