{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami","title":"Why I've Never Dated","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1213,"description":"I’ve never dated anyone. Never been on a dating site. \nMy experiences in the early stages of romance and relationships have always been intense, wild and unmistakable. \nI’ve seen something reposted a few times lately, an idea that people seem to be in awe of, that’s been the story of my life: \n“What’s crazy is that real lovers don’t even do talking stages. All it takes is one good date and suddenly y’all are together every day after that.” \n\nYeah. This is how it’s always been for me. I EXPECT big love, big feeling, a whole-hearted, whole-vagina, whole-soul response to someone. \n\nNothing less. Why would I waste my time on anything BUT that? \nIn this episode:  \nSince I don’t “date” here’s what I do instead\nThe morass of modern dating and my advice on how to navigate it \nHumans vs. superhumans\nJen Okazaki weighs in (iykyk) \nWhen you know you know \nPeople who marry for every other reason other than deep passion and what they look like 5, 10, 15 years down the road—I would know because I see them all the time \nRecognizing soul mates—or at least the people who hold vital learning for you here and now \nShakespearean-Romantic-poet-epic-saga-love and nothing less \nCourage and boldness in love \nDeath by a thousand cuts of cowardice ","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/aK0w-bQqMnOCsRlrUIPhg9lqL3KyugpkTYrszEjsyEw/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9zaG93/LzExMDAyLzE1OTAz/Mjk2NzItYXJ0d29y/ay5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}