{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Secure Husband","title":"It Feels Like She Has All the Power (The Perception of Powerlessness)","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1039,"description":"If you feel like your wife controls everything, that feeling is real.\nBut the conclusion is not.\nIn this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we break down the perception of powerlessness and how it keeps you stuck.\nIn this video you will learn:\n• Why you feel like she has all the power\n• The difference between feeling powerless and being powerless\n• How your emotional state depends on her behavior\n• How self-abandonment gives your power away\n• What changes when you show up grounded and clear\nShe controls her actions.\nYou control your response.\nWhen you tie your mood to her behavior, you feel stuck. You start to chase, overthink, or shut down.\nThis pattern often starts early in life. You learned to read moods and keep the peace. Now it shows up in your marriage.\nThe shift starts here:\nYou stop ignoring your needs.\nYou speak clearly.\nYou stay grounded.\nYou stop abandoning yourself.\nIf you feel stuck and want help, sign up for a free 30-minute consultation.\nThis is just a conversation about what is happening in your marriage and how coaching might work for you. No sales pitch. No pressure. Just seeing if it is a good fit and how I can help.\nIf you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.\n#deadbedroom \n#marriage \n#sexlessmarriage\n#MarriageHelp\n#SelfWorth\n#InnerChildHealing\n#SelfGrowth\n#attachmenttheory\n#attachmentstyles\nAll content is for informational purposes only and does not provide medical or psychological diagnosis or treatment. Always consult your physician before starting any treatment or therapy. This includes all content on this site, email, blogs, podcasts, social media, and events. Nothing shared constitutes medical or legal advice. Use of this information is at your own risk.","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/YJmHpXqr3wfrhL5fsdmtlNEm6ml1FboHb1lRAj0byEY/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8xM2Vj/NGY4MTMxZDhhNmE5/ZGI4YzVmMjNmZjRh/YWU4MC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}