{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Dads On Tap","title":"The Vows We Don't Know We Made","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1494,"description":"Most of us have made promises we don’t remember making: “I won’t need anyone,” “I won’t get my hopes up,” or “I’ll handle life on my own.” These hidden vows often begin as intelligent ways of surviving pain, disappointment, or loneliness—but over time, they can keep us from the connection, hope, and trust we genuinely desire. In this episode, Scott explores how these quiet agreements shape our relationships with others and with God. In the process he shares his own struggle with self-reliance and disappointment and considers what we can learn from a desperate man's interaction with Jesus. It’s an invitation to recognize the vow beneath our strongest reactions, honor why it formed, and allow the Father to lead us beyond survival and into freedom.","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/qX7je9TOx712mSKN0pWMwsftEg2rqObQ40UCWOiJPMA/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8wZTBj/NTZmMWVlNTA5YmZk/OGM4NWJiYzUwNmQ3/MTAzOS5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}