{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"A Mason's Work","title":"One-Upping Steals the Room and Kills Vulnerability","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/27b5b3d3\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":326,"description":"One-upping looks harmless from the inside. Someone shares a hardship or an achievement and something in us reaches for a comparable story from our own history, usually a bigger one. It feels like participation. It is actually a form of attention theft, and it lands on the other person as invalidation whether we mean it that way or not. Brian walks through this from personal experience here. When s","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/0MKwUQPZVqeGzTPM49TdYKYlcgFFnLZO53ZhnhtIa_8/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9zaG93/LzQ2MzU0LzE2OTgy/ODQ1MjItYXJ0d29y/ay5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}