{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Navigating Wealth","title":"The Unexpected Parenting Mistakes That Arrive With the Money - Kristin Keffler","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":2863,"description":"Today we're thrilled to welcome Kristin Keffeler, Chief Learning Officer at the JFG Family Office, co-author of Wealth 3.0, and one of the leading practitioners in rising generation development. Kristin has spent 20 years working with families navigating the psychological and structural challenges of raising children with significant inherited wealth — and is herself a second-generation inheritor who lived the dynamics she now helps others understand.In this episode, Kristin walks through the well-intentioned messages that stall a child's development, the trust structures that accidentally produce dependent adults, and the disclosure decisions that parents get wrong in both directions. She introduces the trampoline framework for thinking about inherited wealth — why it lifts children higher when structured correctly, and why it sinks them lower than if they had nothing when it isn't.Key Topics CoveredWhy the message \"I earned this so you don't have to\" is more damaging than the wealth itselfThe trampoline framework: how inherited wealth amplifies effort or replaces itFalse scarcity vs. permissiveness — why both extremes backfireSelf-determination theory applied to parenting: autonomy, competence, and relatedness as a diagnostic frameworkThe age-by-age disclosure framework — what to share, when, and what to build before you share anything at allThe four biggest mistakes wealthy parents make with their childrenThe apprenticeship model for trust design — a staged path from beneficiary to co-trustee across the 20s and 30sWhat to include in a letter of wishes that actually worksHow overly controlled trusts can infantilize adult children well into their 60sSpending modeling: housekeepers, travel, and what to be thoughtful about as children observe family lifestyleEpisode ResourcesApply to Long Angle HNW Community: longangle.com/navigatingwealthSubscribe to Navigating Wealth Newsletter: https://www.longangle.com/navigating-wealth-podcastConnect with Kristin Keffeler on...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/nzGbYWHlgoCy6Gn9GC7xw5zI32Zjq5Y2STboqrIQs4Y/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80YjY3/NTkzZjNlNjUwMzIx/MDdmOGQ5Y2UxZDFl/NGQ1Yi5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}