{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"That's Not Very Ladylike","title":"Ladies Don't Say They Hate Their Friend's Partner. They Just Stop Doing Couples Things.","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1308,"description":"In this episode of That's Not Very Ladylike the dinners you stop accepting. The double dates that suddenly never work with your schedule. The friend you used to see weekly who you now see at brunch, alone, twice a year. The text you draft and don't send. The \"we should get together soon\" that never has a date attached. The version of the friendship that survived because you stopped saying the thing.Women have been quietly editing themselves out of friendships for generations to avoid one uncomfortable sentence, and most of us were never told there was another option. This episode is about noticing what you've been swallowing for the sake of the friendship, naming what it's actually costing both of you, and asking whether the silence is protecting her or just protecting you from a harder conversation.Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/mountaineer/break-it-downLicense code: 1S4TI94HJFOHIGSH","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/nvorQ97RWUBoLoE7LuDKrLwi0X2cyxUTlSVyfpvvPak/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9iM2Fm/YTE4OTlhMjhjZmFk/YmEyMTI2ZDM1OGNl/MDVhYi5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}