{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Phases - A Parenting podcast with Dr Courtney","title":"Why Parents Need To Tell Kids What TO Do Instead of What NOT to Do","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1201,"description":"Dr. Courtney and her husband Scott discuss why shifting from telling kids what NOT to do to what TO do can make a difference in how we approach behavior. They break down the psychology behind clear directions, why kids may struggle to follow through even when they know the rules, and practical ways to help kids learn what to do instead.\nIn this episode, we discuss:\nWhy parents default to “Stop it!” and “Don't do that!” — and what kids may be missing from those directions.\nHow to turn common behavior struggles into clear, actionable directions.\nThree simple ways to make directions easier for kids to understand and follow.\nWhat to do when your child knows what to do but still struggles to follow through.\nWhen saying “NO” or “STOP” is exactly what your child needs to hear.\nThe goal isn't to stop setting limits. It's to move beyond stopping unwanted behavior and start teaching the skills kids need to succeed.\n\nHave a question for us? Leave it here, and we may answer it in our next Q&A!","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/JwgOtlLZu5zWNX31LsQ1rHvkxbTlPEzazaBSlcazEI8/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS85YzFj/ZmE3M2IzMTI0OWY4/MGViM2ZjMTE5ZDM1/MTc4Yy5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}