{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Dad Starting Over","title":"\"I Didn't Have A Self\" | An Avoidant Wife Explains What Broke","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":2904,"description":"Kate is the admittedly avoidant partner to Tyler Ely, the anxious partner I had on a previous live stream. Tyler read The Dead Bedroom Fix, backed off, and started working on his own security. It helped. We heard his side. This one is hers.\nThree years ago they sat in therapy and talked about ending it. Today she cancels plans so she can be around him.\nWhat she gets into:\nWhy she stopped believing him even while he was doing everything right\nThe two books they handed each other, and how both got taken as an insult\nWhy the divorce conversation came four months AFTER they started working on the marriage\nThe lie she told herself for fifteen years about why she couldn't have a life of her own\nThe moment a therapist called her out in a room full of people\nWhy \"divorce stays on the table\" is the rule that made them stop staying out of obligation\nIf you're the anxious one in your house and you're in month three of doing the work with nothing to show for it, this is the conversation to sit through.\n\n🔴 FREE: Fix Your Dead Bedroom (Instant PDF Download)\nhttps://go.helpformen.com/tl/545\n🔴 FREE COURSE: The Dead Bedroom Fix Course\nhttps://deadbedroomfixcourse.com\n🔴 NEW!: The Dead Bedroom Fix App\nhttps://studio.com/ralph/deadbedroomfix?c=gNiRtwcj\n🔴 TAKE THE QUIZ: What's your REBUILD score?\nhttps://helpformen.com/insights/rebuild-score\n🟢 JOIN THE BROTHERHOOD (Private Community for Men)\nhttps://helpformen.com/join","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/YiHzLsFwQs1l2EQbUXztvHyWFsPsmiGIGpfVw4pLN6o/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS84ODQ0/ODVhZDc4YzQ3OGQ4/MmQ3ZWNmOTBjZWVi/ZDVmZC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}