{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Strong New York Podcast","title":"Attachment Expert, Chris Davids on Why You Want Love but Can't Trust it","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/414b0bc8\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3984,"description":"Kenny Santucci sits down with Chris Davids (@EvolvedByChris) — a former physician turned attachment coach who dated 300+ women after his divorce and grew his following from 0 to 300K in six months by telling the truth about relationships.\nThey break down the anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment styles running most people's dating lives, why men and women process stress and \"peace\" completely differently, why chasing dopamine early kills relationships, and what women actually want from a man (hint: it's not his bank account).\nIn this episode:\nThe 3 attachment styles that predict how someone dates\nWhy \"honesty\" in dating isn't about looks or money\nDopamine vs. oxytocin — why the honeymoon phase always ends\nWhy smart people still make terrible relationship decisions\nWhat women actually want from a man\n\nConnect with Chris Davids \nInstagram: @evolvedbychris\nConnect with Kenny and Strong New York: \nInstagram: @kennysantucci\nInstagram: @strongnewyork\nFollow the Strong New York Podcast: \nInstagram: @strongnewyorkpod\n0:00 Intro\n0:58 Why Dating Is Harder Than Ever\n8:25 Chris’s Journey Into Relationship Coaching\n11:50 Attachment Styles Explained: Anxious, Avoidant and Disorganized\n18:58 Does Childhood Cause Avoidant Attachment?\n24:41 Why You Cannot Love Someone Out of Avoidance\n27:36 Avoidant Attachment vs. Narcissism\n32:59 The Best First-Date Advice\n37:19 How to Choose the Right Partner\n41:21 Dopamine, the Honeymoon Phase and Why Feelings Fade\n43:16 Friendship, Sacrifice and Compromise in Relationships\n50:00 Why Smart People Make Bad Relationship Decisions\n56:32 Why Relationships Should Be Run Like a Business\n57:59 What Women Actually Want From Men\n62:16 These are the Only Qualities Women Look for\nThis episode is sponsored by:\n🔥 Celsius — the energy drink that fuels every Strong New York workout. Follow @celsiusofficial on Instagram for all the new flavors.\n🩸 Marek Health — optimize your hormones, recovery, and performance at marekhealth.com. Use code KENNY for...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/2Xk0ZfTav_YYXRVY33jR580T6b9XsLam3nbonxuWOrE/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS83ODY5/ODY1MDY4ZWQyNzg0/OWQxOThmY2JlMTc3/MDExOC5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}