{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Humility Advantage","title":"Rewriting the Script: Stop Waiting to Be Chosen","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1140,"description":"Every leader carries an internal script about who they are, whether they belong, how much they should speak, and what they have to prove.\nBut who wrote yours?\nIn this episode of The Humility Advantage, we explore Chapter 6, Rewriting the Script — Tools to Reclaim Your Voice.\nJ. Alexander’s own leadership journey provides the emotional center—from leading hundreds of Marines and serving in leadership in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to entering corporate America and wondering why nobody was choosing him to lead.\nThat tension created a familiar imposter-syndrome script:\n“You have to prove you belong.”\n“Don’t let them see weakness.”\nThis episode explores the Proving Script, the People-Pleasing Script, and the Silence Script, along with J.’s four-step framework for rewriting limiting beliefs:\nAwareness. Interruption. Integration. Reinforcement.\nYou’ll also hear practical tools involving journaling, breathwork, visualization, identity-based affirmations, and one of J.’s central leadership distinctions:\nPerformative confidence versus calm certainty.\nThe question to take with you:\nWho wrote your script—and why are you still letting it lead you?","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/vgecvXFaxXCAhLfvoaTEATwE6hbAF82CkTN72LqHjxw/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8yZWMx/N2NkMmRlOWJhMWU5/NzZlZTdhN2QzNDQw/ZmVmNy5qcGVn.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}