{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Daily(ish)","title":"I Need to Stop Asking Questions with Options Included","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/4df9cd26\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":205,"description":"I talk about a habit I’ve noticed in myself: when I ask questions, I often tack on two options, as if I’m narrowing what someone can say (like “today or tomorrow” or “fun or a letdown”), and I recognize it’s a bit like telling someone what they’re feeling. I reflect on other conversational patterns I notice: people who don’t wait for answers, never ask questions, or say they’re wrapping up and then keep talking, partly because editing podcasts makes me hyperaware of these things. ","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/GC3tNR6fJvoJw_sKAqCQedpaXQ0yAHa9cOsXPsNQ2K4/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lZjk1/NDNlOGRhMzZjYTI4/YzAyZTNkM2E2N2Rj/NDk1Yy5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}