{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Junkyard Love Podcast","title":"Shame, Sex, and Men's Mental Health - with Fran Frye","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/5167128e\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":5094,"description":"Fran Frye is a sex educator, counselor, and advocate for men's mental health. She helps men understand themselves sexually so they can have a more fulfilling life. She works with men who watch more porn than they mean to, feel gone from their bodies during sex, keep a secret sex life, or sit in the shower after infidelity thinking, \"Why did I do that again??\", and much more.\nFran is a rape survivor, an athlete, and a death doula.\nWe talk about the years she disappeared from her own body after she was raped in college, and how movement brought her back. We talk about arousal when we are actually angry, scared, or just flooded - and why 'getting off' does not answer what the body was asking. We get into the shame after cheating and after masturbation, the missing words for what you actually want in bed, porn as both a relief and a stand-in for sex you are not having, how Fran took her power back after harm, and the intimacy nobody wants to name when someone is dying.\nThe way Fran sees it: You don’t have a sex problem. You have a nervous system problem. Let's find out why -\nIf you're ready to expand your mind and explore your body - please welcome to the fray: Junkyard Love special guest: Fran Frye.\nFran's site: https://www.franfrye.com/\n*Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/franfryecounseling/\n- Email: fran@franfrye.com\n- Based in Charleston / Mt. Pleasant, SC. Fran Frye, LLC.\n- Training: Sexual Health Alliance certified; Somatica Institute trained; Modern Sex Therapy Institutes trained; American Board of Sexology certified; compulsive-sexual-behavior focus; death doula trained.\n- Lived: sexual assault survivor; athlete; former military spouse; rape-crisis hotline + rooms (~3 years); human-trafficking prevention at Tampa International Airport; food-scarcity / soup kitchen volunteering in Tampa; hospice / in-home death-doula work; supports Veterans.\n- Practice frame in her own words: helps men break compulsive sexual behavior without shame, sobriety...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/-wIoXe_lBsAgcqPoSfBhM15bJ_HDaEzvBoo-VmbjHdI/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9kNTcw/NzdjNjA4YWMzZmUy/MTRjODYzNGE4OGRk/YTY2OC5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}