{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Dating in Your 20s","title":"The Ten Commandments","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1783,"description":"In this episode, Amelia and Lilly recap their time at the Beauty Boost Chicago event and reflect on the power of community and supporting local businesses. They revisit the mission behind their podcast — offering a therapeutic lens on dating and relationships — and dive into the “unwritten rules” of modern dating. Together, they question these societal commandments, encouraging listeners to decenter external expectations and reconnect with their own values.\nThe conversation touches on navigating feedback from friends and family, the messy process of self-discovery in your 20s, and practicing compassionate curiosity toward yourself and others. Amelia and Lilly close with a reminder that there’s no single “right” way to date — just your way — and invite listeners to embrace their unique experiences and seek support along the journey.\nTakeaways\nThe Beauty Boost Chicago event showcased local businesses and communities.\nListeners appreciate the therapeutic approach to dating discussed in the podcast.\nSocietal rules around dating can create unnecessary pressure.\nIt's important to focus on personal values rather than external expectations.\nFeedback from friends and family can complicate dating decisions.\nSelf-discovery is a crucial part of navigating relationships in your 20s.\nEmbracing change is essential for personal growth.\nCompassionate curiosity helps in understanding oneself better.\nIt's okay to feel uncomfortable when spending time alone.\nThe journey of dating is unique for everyone, and there's no one-size-fits-all approach.\nRelated Episodes:\nThe Crash-out Episode\nLooking Back, Moving Forward: How Our Podcast Changed Our Relationships With Oren Matteson\nDating In Your 20s Anonymous Corner\nWe'd love to hear from you! Check out the anonymous DIY20s Form. It's a safe, judgment-free space to share what’s going on in your love life.\n\nConnect:\nLilly Wehman: Millennium | LinkedIn\nAmelia Abernathy: Millennium | LinkedIn\nThis podcast is powered by Millennium Counseling...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/H44aNgaEKxUG9bCQVkc0fhihSodlCy8psV4mIlCPonE/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8yY2Yw/ZGU5MDQ0ZWExOWU0/N2VjZDJlZTFlMmJm/MGM1My5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}