{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"That's Not Very Ladylike","title":"Ladies Don't Want More In the Bedroom. They Just Silently Read Smut Books. ","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/51ffda83\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1249,"description":"In this episode of That's Not Very Ladylike, here's a fun little lie we've all been sold: that if a woman's pulled back in the bedroom, she's just not that into it anymore and that's that. Meanwhile she's three books deep into a series with a cracked spine and a very specific search history. So which is it? In this episode I get into what's actually going on, how shifting hormones, a nervous system stuck in fight-or-flight, and a brain that's running on fumes quietly turn the volume down on desire, and why reading smut is so often the tell. It's not that the want went away. It's that the want needs different conditions than it used to. Let's talk about it.Music from #Uppbeathttps://uppbeat.io/t/mountaineer/break-it-downLicense code: 1S4TI94HJFOHIGSH","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/nvorQ97RWUBoLoE7LuDKrLwi0X2cyxUTlSVyfpvvPak/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9iM2Fm/YTE4OTlhMjhjZmFk/YmEyMTI2ZDM1OGNl/MDVhYi5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}