{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Secure Husband","title":"Self Love is Not Selfish Nor Narcissistic","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":515,"description":"You’ve been told real men always sacrifice. That setting boundaries is cold. That taking care of yourself is selfish.\nBut here’s the truth:\nSelf love is not selfish. Self love is not narcissistic. Self love is strength.\nIn this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we unpack a lie many men were raised to believe — that putting yourself first means you're doing something wrong. You’ll learn why loving yourself is actually the most loving thing you can do for your marriage.\nThis video will help you:\n✅ Stop feeling guilty for setting boundaries\n✅ Learn the difference between selfishness and self-respect\n✅ Heal the part of you that fears being “the bad guy”\n✅ Lead your emotions without handing them to your wife\n✅ Love her fully — without losing yourself\nWhat we cover:\nWhy men confuse sacrifice with love\nHow self-neglect damages your marriage\nWhy boundaries create emotional safety\nWhat self-leadership really looks like\nHow to speak up with both kindness and clarity\nYou don’t have to disappear to keep the peace. You don’t have to stay silent to be good. You don’t have to give yourself away to be loved.\nYou can be whole.\nYou can be strong.\nYou can lead — without guilt.\nIf you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.\n#deadbedroom #marriage \n#sexlessmarriage\n#MarriageHelp\n#SaveYourMarriage\n#SecureHusband\n#MarriageAdvice\n#RelationshipHealing\n#SelfWorth\n#InnerChildHealing\n#MensMentalHealth\n#SelfLoveJourney\n#EmotionalHealing\n#OvercomeRejection\n#HealthyMasculinity\n#MarriageCoaching\n#StopPeoplePleasing\n#SelfGrowth\nFor informational purposes only. This is not a medical or psychological diagnosis. Consult your physician regarding any necessary mental health diagnosis and treatment options. Always seek professional medical advice before starting any new treatment or therapy. Any and all information by or on this site is provided for promotional or...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/YJmHpXqr3wfrhL5fsdmtlNEm6ml1FboHb1lRAj0byEY/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8xM2Vj/NGY4MTMxZDhhNmE5/ZGI4YzVmMjNmZjRh/YWU4MC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}