{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":" Real Talk: Men, Divorce & Rebuilding","title":"The Hidden Hurt Behind Divorce | Mental Health, Healing & Faith with Dietrix Urquhart","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":2304,"description":"What if divorce isn’t the real problem?\nIn this powerful episode of Real Talk, host Lawrence Flowers sits down with Dietrix Urquhart, a mental health professional, to discuss the emotional wounds that often begin long before a marriage ends.\n\nTogether, they explore childhood trauma, grief, anger, emotional intelligence, men’s mental health, faith, accountability, and why true healing starts by looking inward instead of blaming others.\nWhether you’re navigating divorce, recovering from heartbreak, struggling with unresolved childhood pain, or simply trying to become a healthier man emotionally and spiritually, this conversation offers practical wisdom and biblical encouragement.\n\nIn this episode you’ll learn:\n• Why your feelings are not always facts\n• How childhood wounds affect adult relationships\n• Why anger is often disguised hurt\n• The importance of accountability and self-reflection\n• How faith and prayer transform the healing process\n• Why therapy is a sign of strength—not weakness\n• Practical advice for men facing divorce or separation\n• The difference between happiness and lasting joy\nIf this conversation encouraged you, please Like, Subscribe, and Share it with someone who needs hope today.\n\nChapters\n00:00 Introduction – Healing Beyond Divorce\n00:02:12 Meet Mental Health Professional Dietrix Urquhart\n00:03:01 Why Dietrix Chose Mental Health\n00:04:05 Looking Back on Marriage and Divorce\n00:06:19 Self-Reflection Instead of Blame\n00:09:31 Lessons Learned About Love Languages\n00:11:10 Where Did the Hurt Begin?\n00:12:29 Why Men Disconnect from Their Emotions\n00:16:25 Happiness vs. Joy\n00:18:23 Your Feelings Are Not Always Facts\n00:19:53 When Should You Seek Counseling?\n00:21:37 Breaking the Stigma Around Men’s Mental Health\n00:23:27 Healing After Losing His Mother\n00:26:44 Daily Habits That Build Emotional Strength\n00:28:02 Advice for Men Facing Divorce\n00:30:17 Prayer, Counseling & Accountability\n00:32:13 Speaking Hope to Men Who Feel Hopeless\n00:34:45 Rapid...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/BIzb62yuAghLhvClzzczbP3rw8tB8EgDq-nh1oEa9a0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8zNmMy/ZjZhNWYyZTdlOTJh/ZWIwZTcyNzYxZDM4/MjFjYS5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}