{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Plenty with Kate Northrup","title":"170. Father Wounds & Money: Why Structure Feels Unsafe — and How to Let It Hold You","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1218,"description":"What if your relationship with money has less to do with discipline and more to do with the ways you learned to feel safe?\nIn this solo episode, Kate Northrup explores the surprising connection between father wounds, the nervous system, and financial behaviors. She explains why patterns like overspending, avoiding structure, or feeling overwhelmed by budgeting aren't personality flaws—they're often protective strategies rooted in childhood experiences.\nKate unpacks how our earliest relationships shape our capacity to receive support, provision, and stability, and why healing our relationship with money requires more than financial advice. Through personal stories, neuroscience, and practical guidance, she offers a new way to think about structure—not as something restrictive, but as something that can help your body feel safe.\nIf you've ever struggled with consistency around money or wondered why healthy financial habits feel so difficult to maintain, this episode offers a compassionate, body-based framework for creating lasting change.\n\"We often think we have an organization problem or a structure problem, but actually what we have is a father wound.\"   - Kate Northrup\n🎤 Let’s Dive into the Good Stuff on Plenty 🎤\n00:00 Your Money Isn't the Problem\n02:00 The Four Money Ecosystem States\n03:12 Why Father Wounds Matter\n04:39 The Wounded Masculine Explained\n06:38 When Support Feels Unsafe\n07:53 Survival Strategies & Money\n08:50 Patriarchy and Financial Safety\n11:56 When Success Doesn't Feel Safe\n14:28 Reparenting Through Structure\n19:28 The Money Reset\nLinks and Resources\nKate’s Instagram\nMoney Reset\n✨ Ready to Reset Your Relationship with Money?\nIf your nervous system feels stretched thin by money, time, or expectations—it may be time for a reset.\nJoin me for The Money Reset — a guided experience to bring your money back into alignment with your body, your values, and your true capacity.\nThis isn’t about more striving or spreadsheets.\nIt’s about safety.\nIt’s about...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/o03JRta_QRrWYpVnGEniH9ofqOD9uyABk7kkXvT0B_E/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9zaG93/LzQ1MzMzLzE2OTUz/ODkwNzQtYXJ0d29y/ay5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}