{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"High Performance Parenting | Biblical Wisdom for Raising Leaders of Faith, Character, and Purpose","title":"Your Reputation Isn’t Who You Are | V163","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1082,"description":"What happens when your child is doing the right thing—but other people still misunderstand them?\nIn Episode 163 of High Performance Parenting, Greg Francis continues his Champion Mindset conversation with his daughter Crissy, exploring a powerful distinction:\nYour reputation is what other people think you are.\nYour character is who you really are.\n\nCrissy shares honestly about being intense, competitive, and committed to working hard—and how not everyone around her appreciates that.\nInstead of shrinking herself to gain approval, she’s learning to stay focused on becoming the person she knows she wants to be.\nIn this episode, you’ll discover:\nHow to teach kids the difference between character and reputation\nWhy approval can become a dangerous measuring stick\nHelping children stay true to their values when others criticize them\nWhy hard work can make other people uncomfortable\nGrowth mindset vs. fixed mindset in sports and life\nWhy parents should reward growth and habits—not only results\nHelping kids process disappointment without letting it define them\nWhat to do when your child gives everything and still loses\nHow parents can support a child through setbacks\nWhy effort and character matter long after trophies are forgotten\n\nOne of the strongest lessons in the episode is that parents shouldn’t only celebrate the child who finishes first. Greg explains that he was equally proud of both daughters in a recent tournament because both worked hard and grew—even though only one could win.\nCrissy also opens up about the emotional challenge of sitting out competition while working on recovery, even when she knew it was the right long-term decision.\nYour kids won’t always control what people think about them.\nBut they can control who they become.\n\nSubscribe to High Performance Parenting as we help parents raise champion children in a crazy world.\n#HighPerformanceParenting #ChristianParenting #CharacterMatters #GrowthMindset #ParentingTeens","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/H0IbfPtuW5E6xA5h_64oA_tK4QtXvYFkJcFy39wuUKU/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8zMjFh/Mjg1Y2E1MmNmYTlk/MDU1ZjhhY2NlMzcz/MjYzMS5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}