{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Kiln","title":"Ep 03 - The Esoteric Art of Being a Hot Mess and a Great Therapist ","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/5ba5a404\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3404,"description":"The person of the therapist is foundational to the work we do and the relationships we build with our clients. But all too often, the discourse stops at “You have to do your own work.”\n\nWe need to talk about what that means and how our awareness of and engagement with our own deeper layers influences and can enhance the work we do with clients. \n\nToday, we’re talking about how the person of the therapist impacts us, from deciding to become a therapist in the first place to how we engage with our own issues throughout our careers. \n\nListen to the full episode to hear:\nWhy we need to interrogate what brings us as individuals to this particular version of wanting to help people\nHow the spectre of the “good therapist” inhibits our ability to honestly engage with our baggage\nWhy doing your own work isn’t about complete resolution, but engagement with your issues\nWhy it’s okay to admit that this work meets more than just your need for a paycheck\nHow social media therapy content engenders a people-pleasing, customer service mentality for therapists\nWhy conflict tolerance is essential to the therapeutic relationship on both sides\n\nLearn more about The Kiln:\nWebsite\n\nLearn more about Dr. Kae Hixson:\nWebsite\n\nLearn more about Riva Stoudt:\nInto the Woods Counseling\nInstagram\n\nResources:\nSeason 3 Ep 5: From Childhood Wounds to Therapeutic Wisdom with Dr. Karen Maroda\nThe Analyst's Vulnerability: Impact on Theory and Practice, Dr. Karen Maroda\nThe Person of the Therapist Training Model: Mastering the Use of Self, Karni Kissil and Harry J. Aponte\nThe Gift of Therapy: An Open Letter to a New Generation of Therapists and Their Patients, Irvin Yalom\nUnconditional Positive Regard","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/ol_sHXkCdYSA85-0H0NGO8kUra9MOQJFTKh3xAuFQZM/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS81NjEy/NzYwMTdhNDJlZTYy/NTIxMzg3NjA2ODBi/ZjE1ZS5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}