{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Yes, And Otherwise: Feminist Conversations on Work, Rest & Power","title":"Why Women Are Taught to Fear Their Anger with author Gemma Hartley","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3072,"description":"FIND ALL OF OUR CONVERSATIONS AT https://yesandotherwise.com/\nAuthor Gemma Hartley (Fed Up) joins Becky and Faith to talk about her new book, No One Loves an Angry Woman: An Exvangelical Coming-of-Rage Story. They dig into why tradwife content is so seductive, how self-blame keeps systems intact, raising kids after leaving the church, and the difference between anger and dysregulation.\nIn This Conversation\n00:15 Welcome and introducing Gemma Hartley\n04:33 Why are we so fascinated by tradwives?\n09:48 Groomed to vote for Trump: how does anyone get out?\n13:26 Self-blame and the “how could you?” thread of supremacist ideology\n15:45 Victim blaming, self-blame as system protection, and capitalism’s individual solutions\n18:00 Systems protect themselves by blaming the individual\n20:36 Self-surveillance, conditioning, and why angry women are disruptive\n24:43 Sending kids to the Bible camp Gemma attended and talking about sin\n28:34 Jamaican vs. white evangelical spaces and living in “polluted water”\n31:20 Public school, patriotism, and letting kids explore with a soft place to land\n33:51 Who the book is for and seeing your conditioning with compassion\n37:49 Anger vs. dysregulation, rage on the yoga mat, and anger as a teacher\n41:21 How Fed Up connects: emotional labor and the capacity to feel anger\n47:04 Loving angry women, placating, and proximity to whiteness\n50:23 Where to find Gemma’s book\nResources Mentioned\nNo One Loves an Angry Woman: An Exvangelical Coming-of-Rage Story by Gemma Hartley: https://link.amazon/B0bOv7oEn\nFed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward by Gemma Hartley: https://link.amazon/B06vGCwnY\nLittle Women by Louisa May Alcott: https://link.amazon/B0aWMgBnn\nSong of the Lioness series by Tamora Pierce: https://link.amazon/B0fGUYVci\nThe Famous Five and The Secret Seven by Enid Blyton: https://link.amazon/B0bho6IcY\nYesteryear by Caro Claire Burke: https://link.amazon/B0af4sidu\nTrad Wife by Sarah Langan: https://link.amazon/B0fwS0nN9\nA...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/GBHLYfR1d8vTP6gl28L07YDfK_AQkV3CJwsWm3AU-rM/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9hNDE0/MTQ4YzMwYzNlM2Ix/YjIwMzY3NTZlMWIz/OWQ3ZC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}