{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Into The Wind","title":"#002 — Lubomir Arsov | The Seduction of Victimhood","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":5021,"description":"Lubomir Arsov is a Bulgarian-Canadian artist and filmmaker based in Toronto, creator of the films IN-SHADOW and KINGDOM — visual journeys through the unconscious that have reached millions.In this conversation:The salacious distractions — pornography, false adventure, perpetual healing, productivity worship, and the deeper pull underneath them all.Serve yourself first — why a man has to master his own feelings and needs before he can truly serve others, and how bypassing yourself turns service into approval-seeking.Taking custody of matter — the masculine work of bringing conscious awareness into the body, and making space for what you feel without fleeing into the mind.Victimhood as distraction — the negative pleasure of the story that something was done to you, and the process of completing the past.Balancing the equation — how many years you spent stacking one side of the scale with injustice, and what it takes to bring equal weight to your own healing.Eric's death — the avalanche that rewrote everything, and the direct line from tragedy to fatherhood.Ari in the Air:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ariintheairYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ariintheairPGMG (men's group): https://theparaglidingacademy.com/tours/mensgroup/Lubomir Arsov: Website: https://www.lubomirarsov.comIN-SHADOW & KINGDOM films: https://www.lubomirarsov.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lubomirarsov","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/rBh_V777sxlyK1K8a8Y-13AbdUGnwknln20IML_y1vA/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8wM2Vm/M2ZkY2RlNGUxMjlm/NTAxZTgyZTYxNTFk/ZTZlMi5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}