{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"A Mason's Work","title":"Why Giving Advice Breaks Relationships","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/7338ecca\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":303,"description":"Continuing the examination of how the trowel gets misapplied, this episode tackles one of the most common and socially accepted forms of false care: giving unsolicited advice. The intent is usually genuine — spare someone from suffering you've already been through — but the mechanics of advice-giving set up a quiet relational trap. You conflate their situation with your own, create an expectation ","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/0MKwUQPZVqeGzTPM49TdYKYlcgFFnLZO53ZhnhtIa_8/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9zaG93/LzQ2MzU0LzE2OTgy/ODQ1MjItYXJ0d29y/ay5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}