{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Divorce Dialogues","title":"Kelly Lise Murray on Why Smart People Make Costly Mistakes in Divorce","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1843,"description":"The most expensive divorce mistakes aren't made in the courtroom – they're made in the sequence of events that lead you there.\nIn this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Katherine Miller speaks with Kelly Lise Murray, professor, financial strategist, and Co-founder and CEO of Vetting the House, about the hidden sequencing problem at the heart of most divorce settlements.Together, they unpack why even highly accomplished people make costly financial decisions during divorce—not because they lack intelligence, but because they're operating with a brain under siege, incomplete information, and pressure to just get it done. Kelly draws on her work at the intersection of real estate, tax strategy, and financial advocacy to show how the order in which you make decisions determines what you actually walk away with.\nIf you've ever felt the pull to just accept a deal and move on, this conversation will make you think twice—and give you the tools to slow down before it costs you.\nIn this episode, you'll learn:Why the sequence of asset sales, not just the assets themselves, determines your tax liability;How the \"divorce brain\" reduces your decision-making capacity — even if you're highly accomplished;Why property division is permanent, and the questions to ask before you agree to anything; andHow to use tax timelines and divorce milestones together to protect your financial outcome.\nHighlights:\n(00:00) Meet Kelly Lise Murray\n(02:56) The Sequencing Problem in Divorce Settlements\n(04:23) Capital Gains, Exclusions, and the Two-House Trap\n(05:49) Why Smart People Make Expensive Mistakes\n(07:44) Building the Right Financial Team\n(17:55) What \"Permanent\" Really Means in Property Division\n(27:26) The Reframe: Mapping Tax Years Against Divorce Milestones\n(29:31) Your Voice Is Your Preparation\nAbout our guest, Kelly Lise Murray\nWebsite: https://vettingthehouse.com/\nLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellylisemurray/\nAbout Divorce Dialogues and Miller Law Group\nKatherine’s LinkedIn:...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/2nw2w9z7N1c6KkSwiQpiK0ES3HLZcKXStZtcdXwiYB0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8zOTJj/MmUxMzUwODUwNDM5/NjI2ZTdlMTM5OTFl/NGUwNy5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}