{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Becoming Lucy","title":"The 20-Week Scan That Changed Everything: TFMR, Baby Loss & Finding Hope Again","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":4835,"description":"You go into a routine 20-week pregnancy scan expecting to see your baby.\n\nYou don’t expect to walk out knowing your entire future has just changed.\n\nThis week on Becoming Lucy, Lianne shares an incredibly personal story about TFMR (termination for medical reasons), pregnancy loss, grief and what happens when one devastating loss becomes part of a journey no family could ever have prepared for.\n\nAlready a mum of two, Lianne and her husband knew they wanted one more baby. Her pregnancy appeared to be progressing normally — until the 20-week scan revealed serious medical complications.\n\nSuddenly, they were faced with conversations and decisions no parent ever imagines having to make.\n\nTheir baby was desperately wanted. Already loved. Already part of their family.\n\nAnd the decision that followed was made because of that love.\n\nLianne takes us through receiving the diagnosis, navigating termination for medical reasons, going through labour and meeting and saying goodbye to her baby, Eden.\n\nBut Lianne’s story didn’t end there.\n\nShe and her husband found the courage to try again — only to be confronted by more devastating loss.\n\nAnd then, again.\n\nWe talk about the cumulative reality of repeated baby loss: what it does to your mental health, your relationship, your trust in your own body and your ability to believe that another pregnancy might actually end differently.\n\nLianne speaks candidly about TFMR, miscarriage and pregnancy after loss, as well as continuing to be a mum to the children who still needed her while carrying enormous grief herself.\n\nWe also explore the parts that aren’t always talked about: the physical reality of labour and postpartum after loss, moments of compassion — and painful miscommunication — within medical care, explaining loss to children, remembering the babies who aren’t here, and the importance of finding the right baby loss support.\n\nAnd eventually, we talk about hope.\n\nAbout trying again when pregnancy has stopped feeling exciting and...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/GuSfZ5U_EMZfpa4Gn3hDD4e3-WqB3IQdq7dcFX40AuE/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8xNDBm/ZTMyYTkzYTQ1ZWQ2/YTczN2ZkNWFmZDNi/ZDJkMS5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}