{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Jewish Inspiration Podcast · Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe","title":"Way 10: Find a Teacher – Why Mentorship Beats Self-Study","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":833,"description":"In episode ten of the 48 Ways series during the Omer, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe teaches B’Shimush Chachamim — “serving the wise” or learning through mentorship. While self-study is essential (way #1), it is not enough on its own. Books, even the Torah itself, can be misunderstood or taken out of context without proper guidance from a living teacher. Serving the wise goes beyond intellectual learning: it allows us to observe and absorb how a righteous person lives, speaks, treats others, handles challenges, and conducts everyday affairs.Rabbi Wolbe shares powerful personal examples: his rabbi repeatedly asking whether he wakes up at night for his children (because failing to do so means “you’re not my student”); watching his grandfather set up Shabbos candles himself into his 90s as his personal mitzvah; his grandfather’s extraordinary self-control (not reacting when a large student accidentally slammed a door into him, never moving an unnecessary limb at dinner, refusing to hold a guardrail or let others carry his tefillin because “the tefillin carry me”); and his grandfather humbly naming a much younger rabbi as his own rebbe because he taught him the Aleph-Beis of Kabbalah.Additional lessons include: we learn more from our friends and most from our students; even the idle chatter of a wise person is Torah; the inside and outside must match (panim / pnim); serving a wise person teaches more than merely studying with him; independence must be moderated or it blocks growth; and we must actively seek out a mentor with humility, persistence, and regularity (the student calls the rabbi, not the other way around). He emphasizes that every person needs objectivity from someone who sees our blind spots, and encourages asking deep life questions: What makes a good person? How do I control anger? What is the key to a successful marriage? How do I maximize my time and potential?The episode ends with a clear call to action: go find a teacher or rabbi now and begin serving and...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/xC6r791Xymmyyuvq9mTdZu0MAAPBACVmCy-Annx8scQ/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lNzIw/Y2Q5NDEwOThkYmRi/NjkwMTNiZWE1Njhl/MzljZC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}