{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Startup Dad","title":"Does Parenting Have To Be So High Stakes? | Lane Shackleton (father of 3, CPO at Coda)","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3551,"description":"Lane Shackleton is the Chief Product Officer of Coda, where he has worked for over 8 years. Prior to that he had a 9+ year career at Google and Youtube as a product manager and leader. He’s a loving husband and the father of three kids. In today's conversation we discussed:* How to motivate and teach lessons to your kids through “quests”* Lowering the pressure on high-stakes parenting* Two actions that can solve most of the challenges you’ll experience with your kids* The difference in feeling overwhelmed between a parent and a professional* Why parenting overwhelm can be so much harder to work through* Leveraging technology as a builder vs. a passive consumer* Balancing being a startup executive with coaching a baseball team full of 9 year olds — and which one is harder—Where to find Lane Shackleton* Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laneshackleton/* Twitter / X: https://twitter.com/lshackletonWhere to find Adam Fishman* FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/—In this episode, we cover[1:53] Welcome[2:23] Wine & software[4:57] Quests with your kids[10:30] Childhood[11:45] How did your son get into baseball?[13:54] Family now[15:24] Decision to start a family?[16:18] Earliest memory of becoming a dad[18:00] Feeling of overwhelm[20:58] Most surprising thing about becoming a dad[24:47] Not everything is high stakes[28:59] Solving problems with kids[32:35] Favorite book to read to kids[33:58] Frameworks[36:46] Has parenting changed your management style?[40:17] Where do Lane and his partner not align[41:39] Kid’s relationship to tech[45:28] What did you give up to become a dad?[47:07] How do you recharge your batteries?[49:10] Startup hustle culture[52:08] Rapid fire[58:18] Thank you—Show references:Bruce Bolt batting gloves:https://brucebolt.us/Napa: https://www.cityofnapa.org/Coda: https://coda.io/YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/Google:...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/F_yCls74GdKLzmfCUXKoHwqOZKN_mFb5zL7jtAWlzzU/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8wYjMx/Yzg1NmIzMjBiZmE4/ZGFiM2ZjMjQ2Yjcy/OTY2OS5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}