{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Wholehearted Way","title":"More Than a \"Human Doing\": Escaping the Trap of Performance-Based Living with Bobbi Lassiter","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3488,"description":"In this episode of The Wholehearted Way, host Nathan King and co-host Mandi Wellington sit down with Pastor Bobbi Lassiter, Associate Pastor at Covenant Methodist Church, to explore the life-changing shift from performance to presence.Bobbi shares her powerful personal journey of confronting the \"secret lies\" that many leaders carry—specifically the gut-level belief of \"I’m not enough\"—and how those lies create a cycle of exhaustion and isolation. As a reluctant leader who once feared she didn't have a \"seat at the table,\" Bobby discusses how true productivity in any organization—whether a church or a corporation—actually skyrockets when people feel known, cared for, and free to be human.In this episode, we discuss:The Productivity Paradox: Why slowing down to care for your soul (and your team's) actually leads to better long-term results.Confronting the \"I'm Not Enough\" Lie: How identifying childhood survival techniques can break the cycle of self-sabotage in adulthood.The Power of the Feelings Wheel: Moving from being \"scared\" of emotions to using them as a tool for freedom and connection.Leading with Vulnerability: Why leaders must go first in admitting flaws to build authentic, trustworthy communities.A Marathon, Not a Sprint: Understanding that true spiritual and emotional transformation takes time and \"mustard-seed\" faith.Whether you are a high-stakes executive, a ministry leader, or someone simply tired of the \"human doing\" treadmill, Bobby’s story offers a roadmap out of isolation and into a life where your heart is truly aligned with the person God created you to be.Resources Mentioned:Deepen your journey: Learn more about the Wholehearted Living Discipleship Program and Wellspring Group at Wellspring Group.The Book: Discover the framework behind these conversations in Becoming Wholehearted by Larry Bolden and Anisa Sumlar. Join the Conversation: Subscribe for more honest talks on leadership, faith, and the path to a whole heart.#TheWholeheartedWay...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/h8aVx9WG84-TuOTFMLo_GQ_aWT1Uhf_HfYIv-Fpeu1w/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS85ZmEz/Yzk4YmE2NmVkYzdi/YTk2YzNkOGNiZDY2/YjIwNC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}