{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Rav Shlomo Katz on the Parsha","title":"Devarim & Tisha B'Av: Looking for a Leader Who Knows How to Rebuke Me","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/7ef40b80\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3140,"description":"Is it possible to tell someone they are wrong without destroying them?\nIn this crucial pre-Tisha B'Av session, Rav Shlomo Katz contrasts destructive criticism with the healing rebuke of Moshe Rabbeinu. Drawing on the Maharag Greenfield and stories of Reb Aryeh Levin and Reb Shlomo Carlebach, we learn that a true leader first ensures you have a \"place in the world\" before offering correction.\nRav Shlomo analyzes the opening of Devarim, where Moshe lists places rather than sins, hinting at the failures without shaming the sinners.\nThis episode is a guide for parents and teachers on how to give Tochacha (rebuke) that builds rather than breaks, ensuring that the person knows they are loved even in their lowest moment.\n -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- \nFor more Shuirim and Music from Rav Shlomo Katz, visit: https://ravshlomokatz.com\nJoin Rav Shlomo Katz's WhatsApp Community: https://chat.whatsapp.com/KHKOhhPaeHx5Kb74WL9L9a?mode=ems_copy_t","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/e1OjSrbTTgrC3g4TzMJOUu5m0EnodcEw3lua42AtTYc/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS81ZmY3/NmI2ZmZjNjdiMWE1/ZjNhNzIxYTMyN2I5/YzQxNy5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}