{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Unburdened Leader","title":"EP 34: The Unburdened Leader Roundtable Sessions: Kim Paulus, LMFT and Natalie Gutierrez, LMFT","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":4395,"description":"Leadership and discomfort are inextricably connected.\r\n \r\nSo much personal and professional development teaches us to figure out the problem and quickly move on.\r\n \r\nBut true resilience and growth require more than just the decision to “let it go.”\r\n \r\nLeading well requires tolerating the discomfort of being seen, not just at your filtered best, but really being seen in your strengths and also when you make a bad decision and navigate the fall-out, respond defensively to criticism, and struggle with your confidence.\r\n \r\nBypassing or shutting down discomfort leads to numbing and disconnecting instead of feeling through the hard things.\r\n \r\nIt is essential  that we get to know the burdens we carry and learn how to heal them so we can lead ourselves and others with more presence and generosity.\r\n \r\nOn today’s show, it is an honor to give you a window into the friendship I have developed with two colleagues of mine, Natalie Gutierrez (https://traumacounselingnyc.com/) and Kim Paulus (http://www.kimpauluspsychotherapy.com/). These friendships have become so valuable to me because safe, trusted relationships that can hold up a mirror to my growth edges are so rich and valuable.\r\n \r\nNatalie and Kim help me kick off a new series for the podcast: The Unburdened Leader Roundtable Discussions, where I have conversations with colleagues, friends, and other leaders on topics we care deeply about.\r\n \r\nNatalie Gutierrez is Puerto-Rican LMFT whose work is dedicated to providing trauma-informed psychotherapy to Black, Indigenous, and other People of Color/Mixed race. She supports her clients in healing legacy burdens, ancestral trauma and the impact of colonial trauma.\r\n \r\nKim Paulus is a biracial, queer psychotherapist and IFS clinical consultant in private practice in Oakland, California. With a background in social justice activism, she serves primarily the LGBTQIIA+ and BIPOC communities, including multiracial people and adult children of immigrant parents.\r\n \r\nListen to the...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/ArOoH4nRajdKHXRE91wYxu0YMZ-69lVTUZ9h58V8AfI/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9zaG93/LzQ0MzI1LzE2OTI4/MDUzOTktYXJ0d29y/ay5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}