{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"What I Love About Sex","title":"Don't Expect Desire If You've Stopped Being Desirable #419","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1532,"description":"Attraction doesn’t die because of time.\nIt dies because of complacency.\nIn this episode, we talk about the uncomfortable reality many men avoid: how comfort, routine, and a lack of self-leadership quietly erode sexual desire in long-term relationships.\nThis isn’t about shaming men or blaming partners.\nIt’s about understanding how vitality, effort, and self-respect directly affect attraction — and why desire can’t survive when men stop engaging with their own lives.\nWe’ll explore:\nWhy “letting yourself go” is more energetic than physical\nHow comfort kills polarity and erotic tension\nWhy trying “for her” backfires — and what actually works\nHow sexual confidence is built through self-respect, not performance\nIf your relationship feels stable but disconnected…\nIf sex feels pressured, rare, or obligatory…\nIf you sense you’ve lost your edge — and want it back…\nThis episode will challenge you, ground you, and call you forward.\nNot to be perfect.\nBut to be present.\nAlive.\nAnd intentional again.\nReady to improve your sex life?\nApply to work with me: https://www.stephanieganowski.com/coaching-application-video/\nFind me on Instagram:\nhttps://www.instagram.com/stephganowski/\n\nLearn more about Ronan: \nhttps://stephanieganowski.ac-page.com/ronan-landing-page\n\nJoin my weekly \"sex topics\" newsletter:\nhttps://www.stephanieganowski.com/","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/OHTXndYdStXtRi9V6CmSKqHrjvAkZo9tv5jJK_cU9Lg/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8xMTAx/NDNkYTY2YjczMzcw/NTliYTMxNjY5NDVi/ZTNkZC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}