{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Know Your Children with Rav Shlomo Katz","title":"15. Love Puts Everything In Perspective","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/7f985c49\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3478,"description":"When parenting gets loud—mischief, nerves, anger—what actually brings you back to yourself?\nRav Shlomo Katz and the women of Shirat David continue the conversation about love, but take it somewhere very practical: love as the daily mindset that quiets anger and restores perspective in the moment.\nWe explore why “hashkacha” tricks to suppress frustration often fail, and why the most effective preparation is what happens before the moment: training yourself to think loving thoughts throughout the day. Along the way, we learn from the “default emunah” example of Reb Leo Dee, connect this to Azamra (finding the good), and reframe success in parenting: not “did my child behave,” but who did I become when I could’ve lost it—and didn’t.\nWe close by opening the next focus: emotional investment in children, the tension between authority and hierarchy in the home, and how to keep parenting from becoming pressure, so it can return to wonder.\n----------\nFor more Shuirim and Music from Rav Shlomo Katz, visit: https://ravshlomokatz.com\nJoin Rav Shlomo Katz's WhatsApp Community: https://chat.whatsapp.com/KHKOhhPaeHx5Kb74WL9L9a?mode=ems_copy_t\nCHAPTERS\n00:00 Sponsorship and Introduction\n01:03 Continuing Last Week's Topic\n02:07 Soul’s Three Garments: Thought, Speech, Action\n03:15 Thinking Love: Machshava\n05:07 Dealing with Child Mischief and Anger\n07:09 Attempting to Suppress Anger (lehashkiach)\n12:29 Extreme Faith Example from Reb Leo\n17:51 Azamra: Recognizing Good in Others\n22:35 Outcome Focus: Becoming a Calm Parent\n23:46 Parenting: From Pressure to Wonderment\n24:54 Finding the Real Outcome of Parenting\n26:06 Defining the Perfect Goal for Our Children\n27:15 Upcoming Focus: Emotional Investment in Children\n28:47 The Best Friend vs Spouse Debate\n30:41 Natural Love vs Deeper V'ahavta l'Reiache\n32:46 Couples as Model for Mutual Love\n36:10 Authority and Hierarchy in the Home\n41:24 Practical Solution: Daily Loving Thoughts\n44:15 When Parental Love Expressions Fade\n45:15 Connecting...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/1kIczSvIsSLQhU43EiAuIwIwZqNhtmqJjeK1o3ZXq5s/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8yYTUw/ODM2ZTE4ZTk5ZWI0/OTFhZTUwYmNkNzli/Y2RlZC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}