{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Know Your Children with Rav Shlomo Katz","title":"15. Love Puts Everything In Perspective","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/7f985c49\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3478,"description":"When parenting gets loud—mischief, nerves, anger—what actually brings you back to yourself?Rav Shlomo Katz and the women of Shirat David continue the conversation about love, but take it somewhere very practical: love as the daily mindset that quiets anger and restores perspective in the moment.We explore why “hashkacha” tricks to suppress frustration often fail, and why the most effective preparation is what happens before the moment: training yourself to think loving thoughts throughout the day. Along the way, we learn from the “default emunah” example of Reb Leo Dee, connect this to Azamra (finding the good), and reframe success in parenting: not “did my child behave,” but who did I become when I could’ve lost it—and didn’t.We close by opening the next focus: emotional investment in children, the tension between authority and hierarchy in the home, and how to keep parenting from becoming pressure, so it can return to wonder.----------For more Shuirim and Music from Rav Shlomo Katz, visit: https://ravshlomokatz.comJoin Rav Shlomo Katz's WhatsApp Community: https://chat.whatsapp.com/KHKOhhPaeHx5Kb74WL9L9a?mode=ems_copy_tCHAPTERS00:00 Sponsorship and Introduction01:03 Continuing Last Week's Topic02:07 Soul’s Three Garments: Thought, Speech, Action03:15 Thinking Love: Machshava05:07 Dealing with Child Mischief and Anger07:09 Attempting to Suppress Anger (lehashkiach)12:29 Extreme Faith Example from Reb Leo17:51 Azamra: Recognizing Good in Others22:35 Outcome Focus: Becoming a Calm Parent23:46 Parenting: From Pressure to Wonderment24:54 Finding the Real Outcome of Parenting26:06 Defining the Perfect Goal for Our Children27:15 Upcoming Focus: Emotional Investment in Children28:47 The Best Friend vs Spouse Debate30:41 Natural Love vs Deeper V'ahavta l'Reiache32:46 Couples as Model for Mutual Love36:10 Authority and Hierarchy in the Home41:24 Practical Solution: Daily Loving Thoughts44:15 When Parental Love Expressions Fade45:15 Connecting Children to Their Souls48:12...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/1kIczSvIsSLQhU43EiAuIwIwZqNhtmqJjeK1o3ZXq5s/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8yYTUw/ODM2ZTE4ZTk5ZWI0/OTFhZTUwYmNkNzli/Y2RlZC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}