{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Is Anything Real?","title":"Your Relationship Is a Leadership System | Ep. 67 w/ Katarina Polonska (The Successfully in Love® Method)","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1417,"description":"High performers love one dangerous belief: “If I can lead a team, I can figure out my relationship.”  But relationship drift doesn’t stay at home. It shows up as shorter patience, worse decisions, lower focus, and a leadership edge that dulls over time.  In this episode, I’m joined by Katarina Polonska — executive relationship strategist, gender dynamics social scientist, and founder of the Successfully in Love® method — to pressure test the myth that relationships are “separate” from leadership.What we cover:Why high performers can’t “logic” their way out of subconscious patterns  Why communication isn’t the only lever (patterns and nervous system work matter)  The truth about blind spots: if it was an intellectual problem, you’d have solved it already  Why many men don’t lack love — they lack language and permission for support  The “needle test”: lots of conversations, but nothing changes? You’re stuck in the head  One move you can run this week: identify the need under the behavior (yours and theirs)  If you’re crushing it publicly but drifting privately, this is your wake-up call — and a path forward that isn’t fluff.LinksKatarina’s site: https://www.katarinapolonska.com/Katarina on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katarinapolonska/Work with Adam (Transition Leadership Coaching)Book a 20-min Foundation Call: https://calendly.com/adamwbarney/foundation-call-20minLearn more: https://adamwbarney.com/","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/Qn6TLpgWpRcPjyPIUKbjo4kO0hmw0xfZwNq28E-eqNw/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9jYTRk/YjIxZjYwNmEyOGI5/Nzc1ODRjNWM5NjQ3/MjE2NC5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}