{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Stronger with Andy Wood","title":"Marriage Hot Takes: Conflict, Money, In-Laws","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":682,"description":"Andy and Stacie Wood on the marriage questions that didn't fit in Episode 3: how to fight, what to do about money, phones at 9:30 at night, what a single person should look for, forgiveness, and in-laws.\nThis is the bonus round. Watch Episode 3, \"Are You Married, or Just Roommates?\", first: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iq7Q2S5aq1U\nRapid fire, on a thirty-second clock Andy ignores: why your spouse is never the problem and what \"stay at the table\" means when you disagree. Die to yourself on the small stuff (go eat where your wife wants to eat). The class Andy and Stacie took at 21 that changed how they handle money. Why phones need tight boundaries inside the home. What to look for in a spouse: how they treat their family, the wake they leave behind them, and the football-stands test. What Andy and Stacie tell their kids when a couple they know gets divorced. Why forgiveness is not the same as trust, and the Corrie ten Boom story Andy can't tell in thirty seconds. And what to do when parents are too involved in their kids' marriage.\nMarried, engaged, or single and paying attention, this one is for you.\nTHE WEEKEND MESSAGE\nThis conversation started with \"Stronger Marriages,\" taught by Andy and Stacie Wood: https://youtu.be/XFandtFb3A8\nONE THING TO DO THIS WEEK\nPick one hot take and run it for seven days. Phones down at 9:30. One meal where your spouse picks. One thing you've been holding onto that you forgive out loud. If you're single: look at the wake. Then send this to someone who needs the eleven minutes.\nRESOURCES MENTIONED\nFinancial tools and resources at Saddleback: https://saddleback.com/sections/resources/financial-tools/\nCHAPTERS\n0:00 Coming up\n0:39 Welcome to the first bonus episode\n1:01 Andy: best advice on conflict\n1:21 Stacie: what do you do when you disagree?\n2:12 Die to yourself: go where your wife wants to eat\n2:20 Andy: best advice on money in marriage\n3:03 Stacie: phones in marriage, yes or no?\n4:01 Andy: what should a single person look for in...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/C-eg33Wmu_-0sjRGC2o2d-SFUApNY7WinuLqxMK7ukE/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS83MmU2/ODAyZWZkNDg4NmM4/NGY2MDkwM2EwYzdj/NTUwYi5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}